Letting Go: Dying to Self During Lent
Lent is a season of reflection, repentance, and renewal — a time when we are called to examine our hearts and surrender what stands between us and God. One of the most powerful lessons of Lent is the call to die to self — to let go of pride, selfish desires, and worldly distractions so that God can fully dwell within us.
In Luke 9:23, Jesus declares:
“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves, take up their cross daily, and follow me.”
Dying to self is not about losing our identity; it’s about letting go of what limits us from becoming who God has called us to be. It’s a spiritual surrender — a choice to lay down our plans, desires, and ambitions so that God’s purpose can take root in our hearts.
Why Letting Go Is Necessary
Letting go is challenging because it requires us to release control. Yet in that surrender, we find freedom — freedom from the burden of proving ourselves, chasing empty validation, or carrying past mistakes.
Letting Go of Pride: When we humble ourselves before God, we recognize that our strength alone is insufficient — we need His grace.
Letting Go of Resentment: Unforgiveness weighs us down. Releasing bitterness opens our hearts to healing and peace.
Letting Go of Comfort: What feels “safe” can often prevent us from trusting God for something greater.
When we die to ourselves, we invite God to create something new within us — a renewed spirit, a softened heart, and a clearer sense of purpose.
Dying to Self in Practice
During Lent, we are encouraged to fast, pray, and give. Each practice is an opportunity to release something so that God’s presence can fill the space we create.
Fasting challenges us to deny cravings and habits that distract us from God.
Prayer deepens our trust in God as we surrender control and listen to His voice.
Giving loosens our grip on material comfort and reminds us that God is our ultimate provider.
Each act of letting go is a declaration of trust — a way of saying, “God, I believe Your way is better than mine.”
Proving That God Can Believe in Us
As we commit to dying to ourselves, we prove to God that our faith is not just words—it’s action. Each time we surrender pride, forgive someone who hurt us, or step out in faith when we’d rather stay in our comfort zone, we show God that He can trust us to follow His call.
This Lent, choose to let go. Release what no longer serves your spiritual growth. Die to yourself so God’s grace can resurrect something greater in you.
Reflection Questions:
What habits, attitudes, or distractions might God call me to release this Lent?
Where in my life do I need to surrender control and trust God’s plan?
How can I intentionally practice “dying to self” in my daily choices and relationships?
What new purpose or growth might God prepare for me as I make room for Him?
May this season of Lent be a powerful time of release, renewal, and resurrection. As you let go, may you discover that in dying to self, you truly embrace the abundant life God desires for you.
In Service,
Rev. Walker
